There are three rules or steps to The Secret and its celestial and motivational power:
Ask: Reflect on what you don’t want so that you can figure out what you really do want. Now write this down and hold on to it.
Believe: Train your mind to really let yourself go. You need to be able to give it your unquestioning belief. Believe that it’s possible. Don’t allow your mind or anyone else to talk you into believing that it cannot happen.
Allow: Be aware of your subconscious so that you can keep a hold over it. Forget all of your preconceptions of limits and boundaries, and free your mind so that you can accept and truly believe in your wishes coming true. Do not try to come up with the details on your own. Allow your surroundings to bring them to you.